THE FULL HEART (Kindle and ePub)

Something changes when self-love is no longer treated as an optional extra or a private struggle and is understood as the foundation of every relationship you carry. The change is rarely dramatic. There is no sudden moment of arrival. Instead, life begins to feel steadier. Your inner voice softens. Your reactions slow. Love becomes less anxious and less brittle. What grows is a quieter strength, the kind that holds without gripping and gives without keeping score.

This book is about that change.

Many people learn to love from a place of pressure. They give to prove they are good. They stay silent to avoid rejection. They confuse exhaustion with faithfulness and over-functioning with care. From the outside, this can look generous and selfless. Inside, it is often driven by fear: fear of being left, fear of disappointing others, fear that love must be earned and constantly maintained.

Jesus speaks directly into that exhaustion when He says, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Bible, Matthew 22:39, ESV). His words assume something many believers were never taught to practice—that the love you offer others is shaped by the way you receive love yourself. When self-regard is tangled in shame or scarcity, relationships carry strain. When worth feels fragile, every interaction feels loaded. When worth is grounded in God’s unchanging love, relationships begin to settle. There is more room for honesty, clarity, and rest.